Men have never been my enemy

I see them as friends so quickly

I connect with them and enjoy spending time

but something happens and they eventually drift away

they no longer want to be "just friends"

no I never gave them sex

and we never talked about having babies

but when I mentioned how much fun I am having and I enjoy their friendship

a cold chill comes over almost like one of death

I had no clue the word friendship had such a harsh meaning

Where the story goes is very unpredictable because the male ego is

sensitive and I try and be gentle

you never know what a guy wants from you 

some do want just friendship

while others hang around to sneak in when you get weak

then there is that guy who is ready to cut the cake...these often scare me away

but what happened to guy who allows me to be there with him and hanging out with the guys?

So to the guys... 

enjoy your ladies friends they are an important part of your life

cherish her emotional side and the input to all perspectives

Just because she is a hot chick doesn't mean you have to see her in the acts of sex 

respect her and know a strong and a true man is what it is all about

not nailing every chick

but don't be afraid of what could happen 

the word friendship translates into strong foundation"

and this is the strongest bond

I believe better than marriage or sex