We have just added a new feature to blogster that allows users to secretly (or not) add users to a "Secretly Admire" list. Next to the users avatar will be a link that says "I Secretly Admire". If you click on the link, that user will be added to your "I secretly admire" list in your admin area (much like your buddy list). You can edit (delete) users from the list at anytime.

How does this work? When you you add a user to your list, basically nothing happens until they add you to their list. If they also add you to their list, then a user match is shown inside your admin area, plus an email notification is sent to both users. Note: If you add a user to your list, and they have NOT added you...no one knows but you!

UPDATE: Blogster's definition of "admire". You like like them, you think they are cute, pretty, handsome, etc. You would not click on "I secretly Admire" on (for example) the following blogs: your mother, father, sister, brother, etc.