And sorrowfully you mistook what I was trying to say, I wasn't attacking you. She was 17 when she got drunk or whatever. Still a child. That was what I was saying. She's not mature yet at 19 so encouragement to grow up of course, is a great thing....it's in the technique, the helping someone to grow up, that's all I meant if you read what I said.....I was just trying to convey to you something you simply aren't going to understand I guess unless you re-read what I wrote. Sadly I think you're not going to care or try to understand. I'm sorry you are offended. I truly am.
You might take this wrong but people could easily say "tough ####" to you too about some things & how would you respond? Probably with your back up & hissing, ready to fight. (I don't know you but that's just a thought I have). Maybe it would be best to encourage her to see that partying & being with friends is empty & that being a mother & making a success from her life as it is now is what will be fulfilling. She's 19. She doesn't know a lot about life right now. Most people even at 50 don't. Even still many at 30 or 40 think they do but still don't. My thoughts only........
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"say way" = same way. Sorry for the error
If you know they're too young to speak to about your lifestyle or even to respond to what you feel is inappropriate talk to you, just ignore the comments all the way around.
I have noticed you don't reply to everyone who comments, so it would work the say way, correct?