Here's some advice from an old dude: First of all you need to get your life fully straightened out before you bring another one into it. Make sure Kenny is the right one before you marry him. You can't have him going in and out of jail. You are now sober...that was the easy part. The hard part is staying there and with BFs that are in trouble with the law and wanting to get married, that spells disaster. Think about yourself and heal. Then get back to school and get an education. You are only 20 and can wait for the marriage and family. I'm an opinionated old fart and hates to see young kids mess up.