Me in a couple line nutshell...I am 43, live in southern California, in a great marriage to a guy named Rob, have a 16 year old step-son named Michael, a dog, a cat, live in an apartment, work at a bank as a loan administrator, and will be undergoing a life changing event in 2009 - moving back to the mid-west to a state yet to be determined to start the rest of my life.